[ET2] Re:Any advice?

--- In emotrance2_at_yahoogroups.com, "SFX" <sfx@...> wrote:
>
> >> I'm not sure where to begin. She has
> abuse issues, and sees a counsellor weekly for this.She has a
> diagnosis of personality disorder (unhelpful), and I believe she is as
> fearful of change as she is stuck in her own self-loathing.
>
> Sorry that this has gone on a bit. I'm not sure if this is the right
> forum, so apologises if this content is outside the groups remit.
>
> many thanks
>
> Simon.<<<<
>
> Clearly we can't go thru an ET prac on this group, but it's a good
time to remind ourselves of the concept of the creative template, and
the vision the prac has for the person they are working with.
>
> You don't have to concern yourself with all that's wrong with her or
feel overwhelmend. You don't h ave to "fix her issues". Just think of
her in terms of a person to whom you're giving the good news that they
have an energy system, and that this is flexible and you can work with
it. That they're not "crazy" but the emotions they're feeling are real
and indicative of an underlying injury in the energy system.
>
> People really like to hear that ...
>
> You don't even have to start to work on her worst problems. Tell her
about energy nutrition and how to feel good again by just letting the
sunshine in, or a colour, landscape, flower, plant or something, or
feel the energy of water when you drinking it. Talk about and work
with energies that make them feel good, feel alive. That sort of thing
is very healing and re-conciling to people in trouble and though it
doesn't "fix" them right away, it gives them hope that there is the
possibility of a future for them that is different than today.
>
> Emotrance is also *really interesting* - especially for people who
have suffered and experienced a great deal of emotion, one way or the
other. It makes sense. Just talk about it a little and see what
happens next.
>
> That's the client practitioner dance, instead of fixing the person
like a car in a workshop. I've found people become very interested and
engaged once you give them the space to come forward.
>
> Lastly, there's that thing about your doubts and fears - those are
only an energy!
>
> Soften and flow. Drop shields to the person. Take their energy in
(and flow it through and out) and find out what happens next. Let the
fear go and something natural and amazing may emerge as you find this
will inside you to help the person in any way you can ("For sure I am
no angel, but what I have to give, I give to you ...").
>
> ET can be exquisite, extraordinary if you just keep it simple.
>
> SFX
>
THanks for the depth of your reply.Food for thought. She loves William
Blake pics/poetry- maybe this would be a place to start - to draw the
energy through from the pictures?
I do have shields- and had started to become more aware of this on
visit this week- I am working my way through Sandra's book, having
read "Oceans"- so its starting to sink in.

Thanks again for your post-it makes this whole process come more alive
- its a different enrgy than the written text.I'm very excited about
ET, and its adding a distinctly different flavour to my work than EFT,
and making a real difference for the service-users.Thank you.

Simon.

           
Received on Thu May 15 2008 - 01:27:51 BST