Re: [ET2] Re:Any advice?

From: Baya Salmon-Hawk <hawkeye5000_at_FI6rqmR9s-uh2avo8a_56xcmT_frol2veIpWPSyTgfnOCIBViTk80iY4YwDdUIEVR6e>
Date: Wed, 14 May 2008 11:37:17 +0100

Thanks Sylvia for reminding me....Baya
2008/5/14 SFX <sfx_at_H_6TyxHbiFH5-i8-l2TbLL-HO94wuYQLA2xudY_Mv5oqnCMajW-PxMmXaWuRJXPH8jVfyup6xKqYOA.yahoo.invalid>:

> >> I'm not sure where to begin. She has
> abuse issues, and sees a counsellor weekly for this.She has a
> diagnosis of personality disorder (unhelpful), and I believe she is as
> fearful of change as she is stuck in her own self-loathing.
>
> Sorry that this has gone on a bit. I'm not sure if this is the right
> forum, so apologises if this content is outside the groups remit.
>
> many thanks
>
> Simon.<<<<
>
> Clearly we can't go thru an ET prac on this group, but it's a good time to
> remind ourselves of the concept of the creative template, and the vision the
> prac has for the person they are working with.
>
> You don't have to concern yourself with all that's wrong with her or feel
> overwhelmend. You don't h ave to "fix her issues". Just think of her in
> terms of a person to whom you're giving the good news that they have an
> energy system, and that this is flexible and you can work with it. That
> they're not "crazy" but the emotions they're feeling are real and indicative
> of an underlying injury in the energy system.
>
> People really like to hear that ...
>
> You don't even have to start to work on her worst problems. Tell her about
> energy nutrition and how to feel good again by just letting the sunshine in,
> or a colour, landscape, flower, plant or something, or feel the energy of
> water when you drinking it. Talk about and work with energies that make them
> feel good, feel alive. That sort of thing is very healing and re-conciling
> to people in trouble and though it doesn't "fix" them right away, it gives
> them hope that there is the possibility of a future for them that is
> different than today.
>
> Emotrance is also *really interesting* - especially for people who have
> suffered and experienced a great deal of emotion, one way or the other. It
> makes sense. Just talk about it a little and see what happens next.
>
> That's the client practitioner dance, instead of fixing the person like a
> car in a workshop. I've found people become very interested and engaged once
> you give them the space to come forward.
>
> Lastly, there's that thing about your doubts and fears - those are only an
> energy!
>
> Soften and flow. Drop shields to the person. Take their energy in (and flow
> it through and out) and find out what happens next. Let the fear go and
> something natural and amazing may emerge as you find this will inside you to
> help the person in any way you can ("For sure I am no angel, but what I have
> to give, I give to you ...").
>
> ET can be exquisite, extraordinary if you just keep it simple.
>
> SFX
>
>
>

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Baya Salmon-Hawk
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