Re: [ET2] the "talking cure"

This is a really interesting topic on many levels and in many ways.

We can paraphrase for those who are coming in later with a Tracy Chapman
quote:

"Baby if I say the right words at the right time you'll be mine ..."

But it isn't the words.

Words appear when state is here!

Words without state are much, much more useless than bicylcles for fish.
  They are painful, hollow monstrosities that simply shouldn't be at all!

One of the fascinating questions this brings up is, "How do we get to
speak the magic words?"

Well, according to the slogan I've just coined, words appear when state
is here, if we want to speak magic words, we need to be in magic states!

LOL.

That sounds nice ... :-)

Then the question becomes in Tracy's example above, "Baby if I am in the
right state, at the right time, you'll be mine ..."

So how do we know what state might be required?

What state to aim for?

"Do you remember a time, and you were in a certain state of being, and
when you did or said something, the results were like magic ...?"

How about a "master therapist" state for therapists?

A "Casanova" state for would be lovers ...

It's a nice system, because it gives a DIRECTION TOWARDS what is
required to get something done.

And there's the verso part of this.

There is a state of being, that if you are in it, and you tell the story
of your problem, it will END YOUR PROBLEM.

As you speak the words, the whole thing dissolves, flows away into the
past, becomes resolved.

An absolution state.

Sounds delicious ...

SFX

Silvia Hartmann
http://SilviaHartmann.com

           
Received on Tue Dec 06 2005 - 06:39:23 GMT