Hello all!
I'm new to this group and just decided to read the archives to
familiarize myself with this group.
This message particularly got my attention as I think I'm not in my
business to make money, but to satisfy some needs and as you can
guess I'm not making a fortune. I make enough to live and then I just
do what's satisfying my needs of creativity and accomplishment and
all.
Having said that, where do I go from there? How do I make money and
fill my needs and have fun at the same time?
I know how to use EFT, NLP, and PS. Don't know enough about Emotrance
yet, it's on my list.
Do you have any idea of where to start?
Thanks!
> Hi J'net,
>
> for what it's worth, what I've found round here with some very
> stalward ETers who are into *really deep level change* is that as
> we are moving stuff, *reality* comes closer and defensive
> illusions seem to recede.
>
> This can actually be quite a hard thing to take and it's true, has
> caused us some considerable dismay. But then, you can always ET
> the dismay and then come to the conclusion that the first step
> towards recovery is to drop the illusions and stand up and say,
> I'm Peter and I'm an alcoholic if that is what actually is the
> truth.
>
> I've always considered myself a realistic cynic or perhaps cynical
> realist and must confess to being astonished at the complexity of
> my own illusions.
>
> Where this is playing out most heavily at this moment is with
> prosperity issues which is also your specialist subject.
>
> Seems that certain people who of course must remain nameless
> aren't running their businesses to make money (which is what
> businesses are for) but in order to fill a huge variety of needs,
> from friendship and "family" illusions to attempting to achieve
> recognition and self worth and then some.
>
> Indeed, the filling of said needs is a far higher priority than
> profitability, in some cases most dramatically so, and the poor
> businesses are tearing apart under the strain of what's expected
> of them and what they simply cannot ever fulfil.
>
> In the meantime, the people involved are struggling harder and
> harder, working harder and harder but what they're working on is
> not actual profitability but only to *shore up an illusion of
> profitability* to allow them to keep gaining these other benefits
> under the guise of running a business.
>
> Which, as you can imagine, is one huge, appalling, disgusting mess
> in every sense of the word and I can well understand that one
> might certainly not look at that at all and prefer to keep hopping
> along in cloud cuckoo land instead - and that would be fine if the
> grating discord between reality and illusion wouldn't stack up to
> the point of psychosomatics and eventually, nervous breakdowns and
> stress induced illnesses.
>
> But on the bright side, ET et al can help with courage to take a
> look what's beneath the thick layers of pink fluffy wallpaper, the
> energy it takes to strip it all down, the ideas it needs to find
> the funds for a builder to come in and really sort the rot, and
> the resolve that the time has finally come to take this drastic
> and highly important action without which the future looks most
> bleak indeed.
>
> LOL!
>
> There we have ... something ...
>
> :-)
>
> Silvia
Received on Mon Jun 02 2003 - 07:45:04 BST
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