>
> I choose to say more on this subject. I just reread my original
post (I'm
> surprised no one has mentioned HPE or asked where they could get
more
> information about it. I guess everyone just went to google and
typed it in.)
>
> I was not able to see the above point of view until I began to
personalize
> it (not simply take it as someone else's story) but take it
personally from
> someone's point of view who was not asked, was never given the
opportunity
> to agree or disagree with what was happening to them at the time.
>
Houston,
I liked your post. I was wondering if you have any suggestions on
how to "personalize it"? How did you even know to do this?
I used to be absolutely horrible at this, telling people things that
offended them. My intentions were perfectly good, but they took it
differently from intended.
Now I'm learning even if I expect it, I don't always figure out in
advance how offense might be taken - which is something else to
overcome.
>If
> you do the drills to get the skills you'll be using the tools to
get the
> jewels.
>
Great quote!
Thanks.
Burton
Received on Fri May 30 2003 - 06:32:04 BST
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