>> I'm not sure where to begin. She has
abuse issues, and sees a counsellor weekly for this.She has a
diagnosis of personality disorder (unhelpful), and I believe she is as
fearful of change as she is stuck in her own self-loathing.
Sorry that this has gone on a bit. I'm not sure if this is the right
forum, so apologises if this content is outside the groups remit.
many thanks
Simon.<<<<
Clearly we can't go thru an ET prac on this group, but it's a good time to remind ourselves of the concept of the creative template, and the vision the prac has for the person they are working with.
You don't have to concern yourself with all that's wrong with her or feel overwhelmend. You don't h ave to "fix her issues". Just think of her in terms of a person to whom you're giving the good news that they have an energy system, and that this is flexible and you can work with it. That they're not "crazy" but the emotions they're feeling are real and indicative of an underlying injury in the energy system.
People really like to hear that ...
You don't even have to start to work on her worst problems. Tell her about energy nutrition and how to feel good again by just letting the sunshine in, or a colour, landscape, flower, plant or something, or feel the energy of water when you drinking it. Talk about and work with energies that make them feel good, feel alive. That sort of thing is very healing and re-conciling to people in trouble and though it doesn't "fix" them right away, it gives them hope that there is the possibility of a future for them that is different than today.
Emotrance is also *really interesting* - especially for people who have suffered and experienced a great deal of emotion, one way or the other. It makes sense. Just talk about it a little and see what happens next.
That's the client practitioner dance, instead of fixing the person like a car in a workshop. I've found people become very interested and engaged once you give them the space to come forward.
Lastly, there's that thing about your doubts and fears - those are only an energy!
Soften and flow. Drop shields to the person. Take their energy in (and flow it through and out) and find out what happens next. Let the fear go and something natural and amazing may emerge as you find this will inside you to help the person in any way you can ("For sure I am no angel, but what I have to give, I give to you ...").
ET can be exquisite, extraordinary if you just keep it simple.
SFX
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