Re: [ET2] greif

Lucy ,
Sorry to learn your loss . My condolences to you.
I think it is our " right " to feel deeply and throughly such a big loss ,
we can then adapt to new situation. IMO it needs a couple of days of sorrow
before doing any energy work . After this period ET works wonders.

Best wishes

Ahmet
www.ahmetkocel.com

2007/10/9, Nicola Quinn <mail_at_lQP21zoTZ9x10OZLW1NE7fVf_f0K1pvRkglq_Tdp970csM08TwiTgftJdRKsmJpnh624reJ1oIccFw.yahoo.invalid>:
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> On 8 Oct 2007, at 14:13, loolytoo wrote:
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> > Hi all,
> > Today I learnt that a freind of mine died last night. I was greif
> > stricken and could do nothing but sit and put energy dancing on. I
> > played all the tracks through twice. I certainly felt calmer
> > afterwards but still very raw from crying. I honestly thought i would
> > be able to emotrance my emotions to a philisopical happiness and
> > joy of
> > having known my friend. I wonder whether it is because the greif is
> > too new and strong? or maybe I should have rained innocent energy on
> > myself afterwards? Maybe it is so painful, it needs a few sessions?
> > Any way I have 20 mins until I need to go and collect my kids so I
> > will
> > go and use it to trance some more.
> > Hoping for some relief!
> > Lucy
>
> Lucy
>
> I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your friend though well done for
> even thinking about putting Energy Dancing on and achieving the calm
> you did. That's an excellent start and shows how important it is to
> be using these things daily so we reach for them automatically in
> times of crisis.
>
> You really can't expect to feel joy, even philosophical happiness, so
> soon after the event. You need to go through the bereavement cycle,
> all the emotions involved with the loss of someone, though EmoTrance
> can certainly help you through and on to the other side where you
> will eventually feel the joy of having known that person, it's just
> too soon right now.
>
> The relief you CAN feel now is knowing you can go through the cycle
> of emotions swiftly using EmoTrance as they arise and that there will
> be a time, very soon, when the pain will turn into the happiness you
> now seek.
>
> Soothing waves of blue and green,
>
> Nicola
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