Re: [ET2] Practical question

Barbara,

Don't be scared to give attention or energy to someone you care about.

Go and read The Harmony Programme:

http://silviahartmann.com/animal-harmony-programme.php

and you'll see that giving attention and energy breaks that cycle of
neediness very quickly.

It may seem an unnatural move, bit like steering into the dive when a
plane is falling to gain control rather than the automatic
inclination to pull up, but it works.

And I happen to think spoiled children are not spoiled at all but
simply being given the wrong things, as a poor substitute for the
love and attention they crave, they deserve.

Spoiled fruit is fruit that has been left then goes off, and from
that point of view spoiled children are neglected and need plenty of
unconditional love and attention.

Misty Sunday waves,

Nicola

On 24 Jun 2006, at 15:34, budahearty wrote:

> First of all I would like to thank Eolake for his generosity in
> offering me the opportunity to read Oceans of Energy which I have
> read and enjoyed tremendously and I wish to thank Sylvia Hartman for
> her courage and adventurous spirit.
>
> One of the questions that kept on popping to the surface as I kept
> reading the book was regarding DISCRIMINATION and CHOICE when
> exposing ourselves to all sorts of energies. Is it about absorbing
> all sorts of energy or about becoming more selective to which
> energies absorb and simply let go of those not beneficial? In other
> words, we all go to the supermarket but we don´t buy all its
> products. Of course a desease can be symptomatic of an energy
> imbalance but could we say that our level of happiness could be much
> higher if we had taken in all the energies available?
>
> I´ve got a friend who is all the time in a negative thinking
> pattern, with very low energy and depressive moods. She seems to get
> better when others are around her and she clearly says she is
> drinking from their energy. But she can become very demanding in
> terms of attention and energy exchange like a spoiled child wanting
> her toy or like a drug addict wanting his drug in take.
> I feel in my body her presence demanding energy and attention and
> it is quite troublesome. In this case, what would emotrance suggest?
> to feel where the troublesome is felt and channel it out ? and what
> about her demanding attitude of wanting to feed from other´s energy?
> dont we have a choice not to feed someone?
>
> I allowed this person to do so for some time as I was wondering
> what was best to do, in the end, I got annoyed cause I felt I was
> being violated so as to speak, my space was being invaded by a
> demanding being wanting to fed from me or my vital energies or so I
> perceived it. I felt I had to do something about it and since I
> couldnt speak to the person, I decided to stop the flow of energy
> from me to her. She inmediately felt it and freaked out...I could
> feel her around my etheric body or energetic body "looking" to see
> what was wrong and trying to find another way to hook herself into me
> and drink...I kept not allowing this to happen and the relation
> became colder and colder.
>
> How does emotrance envisions this situation and treats it?
> Is there something like healthy boundaries and limits to this
> drinking process?
>
> thanks for the feedback and much love
> Barbara
>
>
>

Nicola Quinn

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