Practical question

First of all I would like to thank Eolake for his generosity in
offering me the opportunity to read Oceans of Energy which I have
read and enjoyed tremendously and I wish to thank Sylvia Hartman for
her courage and adventurous spirit.

 One of the questions that kept on popping to the surface as I kept
reading the book was regarding DISCRIMINATION and CHOICE when
exposing ourselves to all sorts of energies. Is it about absorbing
all sorts of energy or about becoming more selective to which
energies absorb and simply let go of those not beneficial? In other
words, we all go to the supermarket but we don´t buy all its
products. Of course a desease can be symptomatic of an energy
imbalance but could we say that our level of happiness could be much
higher if we had taken in all the energies available?

   I´ve got a friend who is all the time in a negative thinking
pattern, with very low energy and depressive moods. She seems to get
better when others are around her and she clearly says she is
drinking from their energy. But she can become very demanding in
terms of attention and energy exchange like a spoiled child wanting
her toy or like a drug addict wanting his drug in take.
   I feel in my body her presence demanding energy and attention and
it is quite troublesome. In this case, what would emotrance suggest?
to feel where the troublesome is felt and channel it out ? and what
about her demanding attitude of wanting to feed from other´s energy?
dont we have a choice not to feed someone?

   I allowed this person to do so for some time as I was wondering
what was best to do, in the end, I got annoyed cause I felt I was
being violated so as to speak, my space was being invaded by a
demanding being wanting to fed from me or my vital energies or so I
perceived it. I felt I had to do something about it and since I
couldnt speak to the person, I decided to stop the flow of energy
from me to her. She inmediately felt it and freaked out...I could
feel her around my etheric body or energetic body "looking" to see
what was wrong and trying to find another way to hook herself into me
and drink...I kept not allowing this to happen and the relation
became colder and colder.

How does emotrance envisions this situation and treats it?
Is there something like healthy boundaries and limits to this
drinking process?

thanks for the feedback and much love
Barbara

           
Received on Sat Jun 24 2006 - 08:27:06 BST