Re:Always through the physical body?

From: Sandra Hillawi <sandra.hillawi_at_nospam.emotrance.com>
Date: Sat, 14 Jun 2008 09:49:42 +0100

Hi Susann

Thanks for the case study, as it does raise some interesting questions as you have found.
I am sure others will have some reflections on it but here are mine.

I feel as if there are some energies that maybe do not need to be
handled through our physical body, but actually just letting them
soften and flow through our wider energyfield is enough.
If we feel them out there, what would be the main point of allowing
them to go through the physical body? Is there a greater
transformation in that? It doesn´t seem that there are always shields
just becaues energies are stored in the wider energyfield.

I think as you point out here there are different degrees of healing to release uncomfortable emotions and restore a sense of wellbeing. Energy disturbances in the wider energy field, as you say, are not always shields, but they maybe 'out there' for the same reason, ie that we are not able to handle that energy within the body right now.
To soften and allow the energy to flow away without coming 'through' the body absolutely can release the discomfort and be a form of healing....to restore the person to the state where this event 'did not happen'. And this may be all that a client wants to achieve....but then...they do not learn and grow...just feel more at ease. In this situation, the relationship with the Father may still have some recurring problems, as the issue has not really been processed fully.

However, as you say, transformation, deep healing, and growth come from experiencing the energetic event ' in through and out' of our energy matrix. This level of healing and transformation, particularly in a very challenging case such as this, is a very much deeper. To dissolve and disperse the energy without it ever coming through the body and out means that we will never 'learn' about that, whats its about. In this case....what exactly is going on for a father who behaves in this way with his daughter, how he might have come to be this person behaving in this way, and why. What is 'his' story. Access to this knowledge comes from the movement of energy in through and out and can eventually lead to understanding forgiveness and compassion......very very great spiritual learnings to be had..... This level of openness and acceptance and forgiveness andmaturity also brings the resources for the client and possibility of real release and healing for the Father's own inner problems.

So the question to ask a person is....does a client simply want to feel better or do they want deeper healing growth and transformation and with that to learn the deeper spiritual lessons of life that this experience has to bring them. And the choice is theirs. Within the greatest challenges lies the greatest gifts.

A over simplified anaology is.....if the sight of broccoli make you feel sick......by simply removing it forever from your sight...will solve the problem of the sick feeling. But you will never know what is broccoli , what nourishment it holds for you and what strengthening of the body it gives. But if you ever happen by broccoli some other time, or something similar...chances are....you will still feel sick.
OR you can heal the sick feeling, and learn to ingest, enjoy and be strenthened from the broccoli and gain the nutritional benefit. But its your free choice and as with everything there are consequences of whatever choice we take.

Meanwhile, can I say that you handled this challenging case extremely well in my view. Absolutely ...well done.

Sandra

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