ET2 - practical question

Hi Barbara

Whilst Silvia's response to you is the best one ...ie to do the experiment and find out for yourself what happens, i would like to share a personal experience on this subject, namely, how I related to my late grandmother.

Like the person your described, she was desperately seeking the energy and attention of those around her. I used to be able to only handle 5 minutes of being around her.... then I would get uncomfortable and my pre-ET response would be ......'Ok, gotta go, sorry, see you soon'.....which was simultaneously a rejection of her.
Then I started to notice.....where I was feeling uncomfortable and to use ET in the moment when it was happening, softening and releasing within myself, keeping my own flow going. The result.... I was able to give her the attention she was desperately needing for so much longer, without effort or discomfort to me.

Even though my grandmother's needs were never totally met, such was her life experiences up to that time, and the more needy she became, the more folks around her were uncomfortable and drew away, at least she had one person who was able to have the presence to show her some moments of kindness and appreciation that she was looking for because I could handle her better and from my own flow had more to give.
I'm glad in hindsight, that even with discrimination, I made that choice.

Sandra

One of the questions that kept on popping to the surface as I kept
reading the book was regarding DISCRIMINATION and CHOICE when
exposing ourselves to all sorts of energies. Is it about absorbing
all sorts of energy or about becoming more selective to which
energies absorb and simply let go of those not beneficial? In other
words, we all go to the supermarket but we don´t buy all its
products. Of course a desease can be symptomatic of an energy
imbalance but could we say that our level of happiness could be much
higher if we had taken in all the energies available?

I´ve got a friend who is all the time in a negative thinking
pattern, with very low energy and depressive moods. She seems to get
better when others are around her and she clearly says she is
drinking from their energy. But she can become very demanding in
terms of attention and energy exchange like a spoiled child wanting
her toy or like a drug addict wanting his drug in take.
I feel in my body her presence demanding energy and attention and
it is quite troublesome. In this case, what would emotrance suggest?
to feel where the troublesome is felt and channel it out ? and what
about her demanding attitude of wanting to feed from other´s energy?
dont we have a choice not to feed someone?

I allowed this person to do so for some time as I was wondering
what was best to do, in the end, I got annoyed cause I felt I was
being violated so as to speak, my space was being invaded by a
demanding being wanting to fed from me or my vital energies or so I
perceived it. I felt I had to do something about it and since I
couldnt speak to the person, I decided to stop the flow of energy
from me to her. She inmediately felt it and freaked out...I could
feel her around my etheric body or energetic body "looking" to see
what was wrong and trying to find another way to hook herself into me
and drink...I kept not allowing this to happen and the relation
became colder and colder.

How does emotrance envisions this situation and treats it?
Is there something like healthy boundaries and limits to this
drinking process?

thanks for the feedback and much love
Barbara

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Received on Sun 25 Jun 2006 - 01:38:18 BST