Re: EmoTrance as a way of life

Hello Sandra,

Here's wishing you and your love a fabulous 2006. I don't know your
story, but I can tell you that 15 years ago I married someone who
most people judged to be unsuitable for me--my own mother didn't
speak to me for a year and a half! Has it been easy? No way! Has
it been an adventure? By all means! And it has taken me places I
never dreamed of way back then...and my mother actually came to like
and respect the guy after all!

By the way, as you trance through those critical energies coming
your way, what do you think gets sent back to the critics---energy
wise? Just curious...

warm, loving waves to you,

Liz

--- In emotrance2_at_yahoogroups.com, "Sandra Hillawi"
<sandra.hillawi_at_p...> wrote:
>
> Hi list members,
> I wanted to share my thoughts of today with you on this topic as I
have come far on my inner journey with EmoTrance and its helped me
to a very special time in my life right now with a very beautiful
loving relationship !
> Wishing you all love and happiness at this festive time.
> Sandra
>
> "Forgive them for they know not what they do"
>
> What do these words mean to me ?
>
> And how do they apply in my life today ?
>
> Today I received a phone call from a friend. I was excited to
share all my good news with him, about the new love in my life,
about our plans of where and how we will live, about when we will
get married about some of the delays and set backs we've had and how
happy I am with this new exciting and very different future ahead.
Instead of rejoicing with me and being happy in my happiness my news
was met with scepticism, caution, judgement and suspicion. It was in
fact like the reaction of many of my friends and family. Interesting
I thought. Though I also admit it was somewhat hard to take from
this particular friend who I was close to and who I thought had a
more enlightened way of thinking. He said his concerns were
motivated out of care for me so I should listen to them. I should
watch for the pitfalls ahead, ask questions, take more time, don't
believe everything, check it out and slow down as how long had I
really known this man.
>
> Why might he have these concerns? Well, the story is indeed a
modern day fairytale coming true. Its outside the bounds of 'normal
human experience'. The details are worthy of more detailed
exploration as the experience of love we have now, relatively
quickly, is the result of applying the principles of energy flow and
energy nutrition throughout. It's become a story of trust and faith
and about real love and happiness. Its about a love more pure than I
have ever experienced in my life before, unsullied by fear,
judgement, scepticism, limiting beliefs that most of us have, not
that I didn't have any to begin with. But the circumstances and the
speed of this love as the story unfolds challenges modern society's
limiting beliefs and triggers their fears and anxieties leading to
suspicion and many 'words of caution'. 'Any normal person would have
these concerns and say these things to you' he finished. And that
was exactly it. I replied 'but I don't want to be that kind of
normal person with those limiting beliefs and fears. I chose not to
live my life like that.'
>
> When you are so in love and happy, you want the world to rejoice
with you, not to criticise or look for the worst scenarios and this
reaction from my friend was initially hard for me to take. I was
feeling a build up of pressure in my stomach as the emotion started
to swell and tears prickled in my eyes.
>
> 'Breathe, soften and flow the energy', I instructed myself and the
pressure in my body and head subsided and released leaving me with a
new softer perspective. How could they have any other reaction? They
do not have my tools. They do not have my understanding of handling
the energy of life as it happens. They have not had the benefit of
releasing old hurts and disappointments in themselves, which then
recur and repeat in their life because this becomes their
expectation. What crystallises out for me as the energy releases is
not an 'I'll show you, just wait'. It's not a 'well I wont mention
my news again to you if you cant be happy for me'. It's a response
of compassion. I can see and recognise that they are indeed well
meaning and doing the best that they can with the energy system they
have which has come from their life experience and how they handled
it. And back then they didn't have anyone to show them that 'its
only energy' and to spend the time to help them soften and release
the old injuries and bring with that release a new found
perspective, a more positive attitude and openness to life.
>
> So I will continue to be and to live my life in an exceptional
way. I will continue to be as open as I can possibly be at any
moment, to accept and to trust to have faith in people and to engage
in life and love fully so I can learn and grow and become richer as
I do this. Yes, it is a bit sad that this way of living is the
exception in our society and not the norm and that so many people
have so many barriers to love in their lives. So I also will
continue to do my bit, to share the EmoTrance message that 'its only
energy' and that 'energy needs to flow' and that 'we all need energy
nutrition'. This of course we know translates into 'we all need to
be heard, accepted and understood' and 'we all need to be recognised
and appreciated for who we are'. When we do this we have more
connection, more communication, we transform our interactions and
can experience more love and joy in our relationships.
>
> So will I invite them to the wedding? Will I invite these so-
called friends to the celebration of this love and union, in which
they are still even now so sceptical? Of course I will. But it wont
be to say . 'look, see, you were wrong, he is what I said he was and
everything has turned out like I told you' for I have nothing to
prove to anyone. It will be because I want to include them anyway,
my family and friends, even with all their fears and limiting
beliefs, even with all their blocked energy, because they are doing
the best they can and I love them anyway.
>
> Sandra Hillawi
>
> 21 Dec 05
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Received on Sun 01 Jan 2006 - 09:42:33 GMT