Hi Silvia,
Were on the exact same wavelength on this. But its a bit misleading I hate to say, about the lipbiting issue. I am not normally a 'keep it in at all costs' type of guy. I live in a culture where others do this and it costs them greatly! I find here that if one blows up and says something out of turn it will cost you in huge ways later on and is never ever forgotten thus the lip biting comment earlier.
You mentioned Pedophilia earlier and I want to tie this in a bit with the above.Bali is a international destination for masses of Pedophiles because the ruling Muslims dont really think of it as bad and have allowed it for a long time here.Now that a lot of international attention has been directed to Indonesian tolerance of this hideous situation they have began to arrest a few of the really flagrant offenders from the West.Local offenders are tolerated as before and kids as women are treated as objects more often than not! In any case, I have had the occasion to talk to a few of the younger men that I was asked to help with 'issues" they might have since they were used by Western men for extended periods of time.I was blown away with what I found. It was not at all surprising that these young men wanted to keep all this crap inside and not to discuss it especially with a Westerner that they didnt know. I quickly gained their confidence however, and essentially what I found is that
they are not angry or embarassed because of what they did or what was done to them but because of what was done to their families when news got out about them. In fact these kids will most likely continue to bring home the bacon so to speak, by earning money from these Western predators in the future! My point is that anger can come from so many directions and although these kids know what pissed them off I wonder what the results will be years down the road and how this anger will finally really surface? Keeping these angers in and under wraps is truly dangerous stuff and the main reason I want to rid myself of them now when they seem to be in the call waiting basket!
I appreciate everything everyone has so kindly offered and I will take the suggestions to heart.
Don
SF <starfields_at_OoSOSq_5XkOflNiflqAGJuQQFAmX4jNsuw0lfRVcoPWQZIKu0wxMLKY1Gi477PYtZ8HU9CWy5YZ3cVbmQL4i5gy82Dg.yahoo.invalid> wrote:
Hey Don¬!
That's probably what I've been waiting for.
When I talk to someone or I read what they've written, I get this real
strong sensation, like being electrified, goosebumps, I call it a
"psychic kick" and when I get that I've found a clue.
This hadn't happened with your mails before (which is why at first I
didn't say anything and then said something just whatever came to mind)
but this time something did happen and it was on the line of:
>>
My lip has been bitten so many times I lost track of where it is on my
face by now!
>>>
There's something with that and even just reading it again, I can feel
that again - that's a pathway INTO the problem, right there.
Ananga, are you there?
What's the ayurvedic deal with "lips" and "biting your lip" to not say
what you want to say and what's bubbling up from the inside?
Don, fancy trying a round of EFT perhaps on that, see if something
shakes loose?
Intrigued waves,
SFXxxx
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