Hi Susan, lovely to see your name. Yes, this is something I wonder about sometimes too.I remember Silvia says, there's no good or bad energies only energy. It feels right and yet if something is against a person is it just energy? Thanks for bringing this up as I would be very interested in having a conversation around this.
Margarita
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From: susannforsberg
To: emotrance2_at_yahoogroups.com
Sent: Tuesday, June 03, 2008 9:58 PM
Subject: [ET2] Always through the physical body?
HI everybody,
I just had a client today, a pregnant woman, who has been sexually
abused by her father. After a lot of work on it (also with EFT) she
still sometimes feels what she describes as the "toxic energies" from
her father around her,causing disgust and uncomfortable feelings in
her body.
At one point an ex boyfriend who also resembles her father came to
her mind, and she felt she wanted to cut the strings to him.
She felt the strings coming from her chest reaching to him, 5-10 m
away. Thinking ET I asked if she was willing to try taking a small
amount of energies in from the ex bf. She agreed to that, and when it
happened it produced feelings of guilt that we then processed through
and out. When that was done she felt fear, that we also did ET on,
then the feeling of being unprotected apperared, that again
transformed into feeling protected.
What I think about, is that maybe she could have cut the strings to
her ex bf instead, and that would have been good too?
That maybe that would have caused healing in the issue, but in a
different way?
After the thing with her ex bf was cleared, her father appeared
again, she could feel his presence, and it was as if he wanted to
give her shame and guilt for what happened.
She felt the guilt in her body and that she carried it for her
father, and so I asked her if she could let that guilt out and let it
flow to where it belonged, wether it was in her father or somewhere
else. It flowed out of her and into her father, and once that was
done she felt that "I actually didnīt do anything bad".
At an earlier point she had felt her fathers energy outside of her,
as this toxic energy, wanting to give her the shame and guilt for
what happened, and I did feel a bit objection to asking her to let
that energy in and through her.
We first worked on the blockage she had in her heart in connection to
her father, and cleared issues of fear and other blockages to release
the issue.
Maybe what we worked on afterwards actually was that toxic energies
around her (I come to think of it now that i am writing about it...)
but I am just thinking about how to deal with it another time.
I feel as if there are some energies that maybe do not need to be
handled through our physical body, but actually just letting them
soften and flow through our wider energyfield is enough.
If we feel them out there, what would be the main point of allowing
them to go through the physical body? Is there a greater
transformation in that? It doesnīt seem that there are always shields
just becaues energies are stored in the wider energyfield.
Are there some energies that belong to us, and others that belong to
others that we have picked up in our wider energyfield? Is it always
the best way to ET it through the body? Or have you found other ways
of solving it? Or is it all just energy and it doesnīt matter who it
came from, we just ET it? There are so many ways of thinking about
this in different systems...
AT the same time I also think of Sandras "Loving the unlovable" and
about letting all that energy of someone you really find it hard to
deal with in and through you, and that that is a way of healing all
the wounds in you related to that person.
What are your thoughts and experiences regarding this subject?
I would love to get some comments and suggestions and thoughts and
experiences from you guys!
Love
Susann
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