Not letting emotions ruin one's life ...

When I was writing the earlier message, I got to thinking about a
personal thing.

It's true that negative emotions hurt but without taking into
consideration the so called positive emotions, especially the really
highly charged variety known as the Guiding Stars, life doesn't make any
sense.

The last time I really "heavily fell in love", I was about 30 and that
started FIFTEEN YEARS of wasted life and absolute agony on a daily basis
with a few odd guiding stars thrown into the mix to make it even more of
a poisonous cocktail of madness.

FIFTEEN YEARS, ladies and gentlemen, and one might say, the BEST YEARS
OF MY LIFE.

 From 30 to 45, I was trapped in this total insanity.

Are we surprised that I would be less than enthusiastic about "trying
again"?

Are we surprised that I would have a "Love SUCKS" t-shirt?

Not really ...

But luckily for me and my life (and so that I didn't end up like an aunt
who never did get over some bloke who broke her heart when she was 16,
and never loved again until she died when she was 92, and that's not a
metaphor but a REALITY that did occur, with all the 76 wasted years that
consisted of 365 wasted days each, with 24 wasted hours on each of those
in between), I started to work with EFT in 1998 and that's what finally
gave me some relief.

So I fell in love again, and it wasn't particularly suitable AGAIN (work
in progress ...) but this time, I had EMOTRANCE. That was around 2003 if
I recall now.

When it became apparent that this wasn't going anywhere, I set to work
and emotranced EVERYTHING.

The "magic moments" and the "dark nights of the soul" without
reservation, prejudice or judgement, just the same.

The daily momentary reminders; the stray thoughts, the twinges at night,
the pain in the stomach, in the chest, in the throat, the might have
beens, the nevermores - the whole lot.

EmoTrance with a will.

And amazingly, it took just a week to "get over him".

One week.

One week of effort, and I was FREE.

Symptom free.

Wow.

That's a personal experience of mine.

EFT is brilliant to get you started or when you feel you really need
help and go to town with a big long sobbing session and loads of opening
statements - there is a time and a place for that kind of thing, I think
so, anyway.

But EmoTrance is there right in the moment, and that's so all the time
with an example like falling in love. You can do so much energy work AS
IT HAPPENS and when you need it.

Very cool.

And you can't know if you aren't me what a RELIEF it is not to have to
write sad poetry for another 15 years this time around ...

I don't know if we're 100% right about this energy/emotion thing but I
do know that we're a lot righter with this than anything else that's
available and on the market today.

I tried EVERYTHING during those 15 years to shake myself out of that
madness and nothing worked, nothing helped.

Man, am I personally grateful ...

'nough said,

SFX

           
Received on Sat Jun 03 2006 - 07:29:36 BST