Success

Just a note re a recent surprise success with ET.

Whenever my daughter Lizzi is suffering some life setback she comes to me and I give her a talk intended to stiffen her spiritual back bone and some comfort in the form of hugs, Rescue Remedy and various foodstuffs and vitamin supplements.

Sometimes though if it is deeply upsetting for her then I can feel angry also. It's the smacking the child once it has NOT got run over on the road it has run out onto. If Lizzi isn't ok then I'm not ok and if it can be seen that she is in some way the author of her particular destiny in some incident then I am angry with Lizzi for upsetting Lizzi.

The example I ET'd was a couple of weeks back and went like this.
She had left her live-in partner finally after some weeks of partial intention. It was a very stormy relationship and on this final night she phoned and then turned up at my house towards midnight after a nasty row. One of the things she was upset about was the damaging of her new mobile phone. The screen was knackered and it was iffy on working at all or not. At first I thought her partner had thrown it at the wall or something. Now that triggered lots of anger and knots in the solar plexus but I can take that. After all we can cast him as the villain in the piece if we want and punish him in some way, which always eases these feelings :-))
The sad truth was she had broken it herself by whacking him round the head with it!!!!!!!!!

Now comes the bit where I am angry with Lizzi for upsetting Lizzi :-)) F*ck's sake, Lizzi!

I generally keep it under wraps as best I can but on this occasion I decided to deal with it instead. After settling Lizzi and going to bed I tranced it and felt fine.

Thought no more of it till today when said daughter turned up in a flop at lunch time looking for support and sympathy. Nasty exchange with ex-partner had led to drinking last night and nasty hangover today. As she is ex-alcohol dependent the drinking and hangover has a different slant than it might have.

Well, I gave the backbone stiffener and the Rescue Remedy and the Vit C but was delighted and amazed to realise I felt quite relaxed and at peace with it all. I had no need to even ask about the drinking, no need to help her make sure it didn't happen again, no negative feelings at all with regard to the whole thing.
And the gist of my spiritual assistance was much more upbeat than normal. I saw that these whole incidents are only a misalignment of self. She was aligned with her fears instead of with spirit and love. In that alignment it's not possible to see anything much other than murk and rubbish.

My advice was to focus on gratitude and vision. Gratitude for anything at all (to my mind it's the same thing as love but we don't reject it so readily and so it gets us back in proper alignment in times of trouble) and vision of how she intends to create her life in relationship terms. Forget the away-from stuff about how it's not going to be - what about how it IS going to be?

It seemed simple then - gratitude and vision - giving proper connecion and proper direction which in truth were the only things missing.

I wanted to share this cos it shows how with ET you just never know what the hell you are fixing, what the extent of healing is going to be. You needn't even know it was broken, just --- where in your body do you feel that?--------

Feelin' particularly good today :-)))))))))))))))))))))

Linda
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Received on Fri Apr 23 2004 - 13:11:00 BST