Re:

That was a great aha moment Diane, that people are usually talking TO you
not ABOUT you when they are talking. They're usually talking about
themselves. So, when Dave said we need more meat in our diets, what he was
say is that HE needs more meat and is just saying it to me because Im the
only other person in the car.

Its interesting too because I think Dave must think in terms of WE all the
time, so there is no separation for him, but, most of his actions are about
trying to be separate. I wonder if thats the same way with Philip. That he
does think in terms of WE, almost to the point of its all WE. So anything
he does individually is to try and be an I. Yet because you think in terms
of you and him, and you're both individuals you're wanting more WE.

Interesting.

Kate

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Received on Sun Jun 01 2003 - 14:13:32 BST